Success is an Attitude

This past couple of weeks I have been discussing ways to prepare yourself for the holiday rush ahead so you can still have the time to keep your healthy habits around eating and exercising. This last part is more about how you actually think about success.

Success is directly related to your attitude. If you say from the start, “What’s the use, there is just too much going on...” What do you think will happen? But if you say, “Sure there is a lot of temptation and busyness ahead but if I think and plan ahead now, I can do it!” What kind of result will that give you? I can always tell who will get through the holidays successfully and who won't, just by their general attitude.

Henry Ford once said, "If you think you can, or you think you can't, you are right!"

Prepare Ahead of Time - NOW!

This week I started discussing things about preparing yourself for the holidays and focused on specific problem solving your challenges during the months ahead (remember all these strategies can be useful any time of year too!!!)

Here are some things you can do ahead to be organized so you can actually prioritize more on your weight loss efforts than just the holiday things everyone has to do before hand.

- Start your holiday shopping now. Do it online if it makes things simpler, but just start it especially if it requires mailing packages away to another state or country. At the very least figure out what your gift options are for the people you buy for..

-Wrap your presents.. Avoid waiting until the last minute.

-Start your baking if you must (chew gum while you bake and do it while your will power is strong in the morning rather than in the evening), then wrap and freeze. Better yet buy the goodies pre-packaged to avoid the temptation of eating them.

-Buy, sign and address your holiday cards and get them ready to mail.

-Make any homemade items that you are giving away or consider store bought gifts this year.

-Make some healthier meals ahead of time and freeze them so you have some meals ready to consume during the more chaotic days ahead. Your planning with food has to be even more of a priority now.

- Keep a cooler in your car with healthy snacks especially while you are out shopping.

Readers, any other suggestions?

Getting Ready

Earlier in the week I talked about getting prepared for the upcoming holidays and asked you to start thinking about what they meant to you. 

The first thought starts with actually taking the time to determine your holiday challenges. If there are any of you who struggle and never can get through holidays successfully let us know and we’ll all work together to solve them.

Start with the obvious challenges. Is it when you socialize, shop, travel, party or are you just tempted with more of your favorite foods around? Do you know how to gracefully decline food pushers? Take some time and figure out what your past shortcomings were with pen in hand and strategize some appropriate plans so you can get through them. Get help if you need to but get your game plans set up before they happen!

So readers tell us your success stories around these challenges!

Preparing for the Holidays

Well we’ve made through the first big eating event of the holidays. Now let’s get prepared for Thanksgiving and the month of December celebrations.

Have you ever heard of the Boy Scout motto, “Be prepared!” Well take that same expression into weight loss this holiday season. The more prepared and organized you are in the next few months ahead, the better odds you will have at still losing your weight during this hectic time of year. Many problems occur because there are things we just don’t think of until the last minute. Now is the time to put these things into action!

You need to know three basic things: 1) Determine what your specific holiday challenges are. 2) Have an agenda going to get the seasonal things done early. 3) Have a positive attitude.  If you put these things into place early in the season you’ll have more time to focus and stay on track throughout the months ahead. For now really think about what these 3 things mean to you on a personal level. Later this week I’ll give you my input on them.

Aftermath of a Eating Holiday

So how did you do last weekend? Did you practice moderation or did you get off track? Are you still beating yourself up if you didn't do well? To those of you who did well pat yourself on the back and offer yourself some kind of non-food reward for all your hard work. And the rest of you who did not do as well I have some special words.

Stephen Covey says: " One of the most helpful images to have of yourself in your family is that of a trim tab-the small rudder that moves the big rudder and eventually changes the entire direction of the plan."

What he is basically saying here is that we get caught up in the "shoulds, ought to's, could have's" and so on. But what does it really leave you with? Regrets? Beating yourself up? 

Well today's a new day, right? So stop any negative thinking now and go forward. What did you learn? What will you do next time? We have three  weeks now to plan for Thanksgiving. In-between that we probably have a dozen or more other social events around food. 

So be bold, stop thinking of the past and decide, really decide today that you will  take positive action steps in the weeks ahead. A synonym for the word "decide" is: to "determine, settle, rule, or resolve."  In other words you will take action against making old similar mistakes. Make a game plan and stick to it! Need help, I'm here remember? And, honestly, you actually have all the Diet Mojo you need right in your own head. The answers are there, you just need to decide to find them and then ACT on them!

Happy Halloween!

Here's a few things to focus on instead of just eating candy on Halloween. The idea is to have fun on this holiday not just eat too much candy and feel sick that night and have a "candy hangover" the following day. Here's an interesting little history about the Jack-'o-lantern.

Jack-’o-lanterns have been around for decades. The story is obviously about a man named Jack. Jack invited the devil for a drink at the local bar but Jack didn't not want to pay for his drink, so he made a deal with the devil. The devil turned himself into some coins, but instead of paying for the drink, Jack kept the coins. Later freeing the devil, he promised to change him back if he did not steal his soul. Upon his own death, God would not let Jack into heaven because of his past and the devil would not let him into hell. Instead, the devil gave Jack a piece of coal, which Jack placed into a turnip. The legend goes that Jack used the turnip and coal to light his way around as he looked for a final resting place. 

Now that's a story you can tell your kids! Keep your Halloween Happy by staying on track with moderation. review my "tricks" from earlier in the week!

Don't Trick Yourself!

Before you decide to do anything sneaky around Halloween with food know that the the National Confectioners Association are on top of your tricks! Here are some of their facts:

• Four-in-ten (41%) adults admit that they sneak sweets from their own candy bowl.
• On Halloween night, the majority (52%) of those providing treats to costumed kiddies will be passing out chocolate, while three‐in‐ten will drop hard candy or lollipops into the sacks.
• 62% of adults will be handing out candy because "it's a personal favorite" or it's a household tradition (55%)
• About 26% of households will include full-size candy (chocolate and non-chocolate) in their Halloween activities.
• 90% of parents admit to sneaking goodies from their kids' Halloween trick-or-treat bags.
• Parents favorite treats to sneak from their kids’ trick-or-treat bags are snack-size chocolate bars (70% sneak these), candy-coated chocolate pieces (40%), caramels (37 %) and gum (26 %).
• Parents least favorite goodie to take from their kids’ trick-or-treat bags is licorice (18 %).  

Know that even if you sneak some treats in before or on Halloween night, the scale won't trick you the next day! Review my hints from Tuesday so you don't have to be afraid of the scale Monday morning!